Igniting Your Feminine Fire: The Inner Path To Alignment – “I realized my cravings for deep companionship and my capacity to go there had changed. My feminine nature, no longer desired to be contained or feared anymore. Physical intimacy is a drop in the bucket of what’s actually possible.” These are not the words I expected to come out in conversation with a potential date but here I was. My inner voice came out completely unafraid with my true desires upfront and unabashedly represented and I didnt care if it scared him off, in fact I welcomed it.
Awakening The Inner Voice: Breaking The Good Girl Role.
Did I forget my manners or lose my mind picking up the phone that day? I sat there staring at the phone, comfortable in my skin, sexuality and full emotional expression, I realized the change that had taken place. My inner voice was growing louder, and at the base of this new foundation was my own feminine fire, whose voice kept finding its way to the surface. It was so different from the Good Girl role I had always been pushed into.
I had been cultivating and caring for an emotional foundation that I was not yet connected to and it was coming to life inside of me. My history and memory of what love could be was a shadow of ill-represented boys and a girl whose social compliance left her with no boundaries. My past was a place where I learned that being a woman had more to do with the curves of my body and ownership than it did with the power and will this voice could command.
I was disconnected from the earth and clay that my body could form into life, let alone make a home, building generations on generations. Somehow, society had robbed me and my partners of this fire for life. As new feelings became commonplace, so did the actions of this part of me as it came to life. Yes, this body is neat, but do you dare to know the truth of the soul that lives here?
Cultivating A New Foundation: Reconnecting With Your Feminine Nature.
Building a new emotional foundation for my feminine expression was one that had been hard fought for. How do you align with your feminine fire, let alone no longer fear dancing in your authenticity when your experience has left you feeling alone, unsupported, and ashamed of truly loving yourself?
My name is AzLynn. I am an Alignment and Embodiment Guide. I specialize in reprogramming the Emotional Architecture of the body. I’ve spent over 16 years helping people heal from chronic pain as a Neuromuscular therapist. Now, I help people find the core of their pain and transform their longest-held, unprocessed emotions to ignite true transformation. Every emotion is direct guidance to level up our lives and become the best versions in love and life.
The Journey To Emotional Alignment:
Healing Past wounds. Loving your feminine nature is rooted in the base of our pleasure as women, loving every aspect of ourselves as we constantly change in the ebb and flow of our emotions and the cycles of life. It is found in our full expression and curiosity. Even in deep mourning, you can find the transformational nature of a woman and the birthplace of her compassion and love. We were made to such complexity that it could only be simple.
Finding our way back to this deep truth of our own nature inside a toxic culture or shame-filled religious community can be daunting on its own. So here are a few tips to bring yourself back into alignment with the intensity and love of being a woman and what that means for you.
Tips For Alignment: Nurturing Your Feminine Essence.
1: Embrace your body.
The easiest way to get lost in today’s culture as a woman is to be at odds with our bodies. If we are waging war with ourselves, our voices can not be a guiding light amongst our culture. Womanly guidance has been lost. We were made to raise the voices of all generations; remember this. Despite a chaotic emotional nature with constant waves, the deep empathy needed to love life into being is innately part of who we are.
As women, we are so self-critical that we often critique ourselves unconsciously, fueling the gap between our bodies and self-compassion. This practice can be very difficult and bring up a lot of unrecognized inner conflict. This is the hard part: I want you to stand in front of the mirror completely NAKED. This exercise is not about just loving the body; it’s about fully inhabiting it and seeding compassion, where we have been taught that being different is not okay.
I want you to notice any self-criticism that comes up, whose words are they, and how can you love yourself better. Come to the mirror daily till you can celebrate all of you. Our bodies as women shift almost as quickly as our emotions. It’s time to use that empathy on yourself.
2: Explore your passions & pleasure.
Let your fullest expression flow into moments of creativity and inner exploration by fully embracing the moment you’re in. Avoid suppressing your authenticity when you feel like it may be looked down on. Embrace the wild and passionate part of yourself that can love life into being, opening up and holding space for that energy to be matched and cared for versus shrinking to others’ expectations.
3: Create a masculine blueprint.
It’s important to learn what healthy and safe masculinity is, especially in an area where protection and healthy providers are lacking. A healthy masculine role model can help create a baseline of standards for our own treatment so we can know what safety is within our vulnerability. This will help begin to heal attachment wounds around men and allow you to step into the natural vulnerability of your feminine nature.
As you journey through the depths of your feminine fire, embracing the unapologetic truth of your desires and the richness of your emotions, I invite you to join me for an exclusive coaching session by visiting the QR code or clicking the link below.
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